Learning To Love The Body You’re In
October 30, 2023-
In a near-constant stream of social media images from friends, influencers, celebrities, and brands, it’s all too easy to compare ourselves to an ideal of perfection and beauty. That can make it challenging to have a healthy body image, whether we’re big or small.
Weight in particular can trigger an onslaught of emotions. According to a study from the National Institutes of Health, young women want to weigh less, while young men want to be stronger and more muscular. If you find yourself with a poor self-image, it’s time to change the negative self-talk and be thankful for everything that’s right with your body.
Body Positive — Learning What Healthy Means For You
Body positive is a movement that promotes acceptance of all bodies, regardless of size, shape, skin tone, gender, and physical abilities. It encourages a positive body image that’s based on treating yourself and your body with respect and appreciation. Building body acceptance is vital because having a negative body image can lead to eating disorders, mental health conditions, performance-enhancing substance use, and depression or suicide.
How To Build A Positive Body Image
- Practice gratitude. Be thankful for all your body does for you every day.
- Scrub your social media feed. If certain apps or people make you feel bad about yourself, remove or unfollow them.
- Surround yourself with positive people. They’ll support and love you for who you are, not how you look.
- Give yourself encouragement. Post inspirational quotes on your mirror or repeat a positive saying each morning.
- Focus on yourself as a whole person. Make a list of all the good things you do for family, friends, your workplace, and community.
- Shift your energy when you’re feeling bad. Go for a walk with a friend, write in a journal, or practice mindfulness meditation.
Tips For Parents
DO:
- Love and accept them for who they are.
- Keep an eye on their social media feed and talk with them about what they see
- Be aware of changes in eating or exercise habits.
- Listen for negative comments about themselves.
DON’T:
- Comment or focus on their (or your own) weight.
- Shame your child for eating certain foods.
- Over-control their eating.
Finding Help
Talking with a doctor or therapist can help you discover what healthy means for you. To find a care provider in your plan’s network, use the Find Care feature on unicaremass.com.
Additional Resources
The Body Positive: thebodypositive.org
Mental Health America: mhanational.org
National Eating Disorders Association: nationaleatingdisorders.org
